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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 12:56

How does one succeed in life?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Ask yourself:

What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

What I need from you?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

I have been married for 34 years, and I found out my wife lied, and cheated a lot back before we got married. Does she not change, or is it possible she is still a cheater?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

In your opinion, what is the worst rock band in history and why do you think they gained a large following?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

What was the most challenging shift you experienced as an ER physician? Can you describe the details and reasons behind it?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Do individuals with borderline personality disorder have awareness of their actions or do they believe their behavior is normal?

Procrastinates a lot.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do I feel worthless most of the time?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why The Simpsons stopped producing Maude Flanders episodes?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why do I smell bad even though I have good hygiene?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Is having white skin really that attractive?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

That's it for today.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.